tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post2514939429575939656..comments2023-10-04T10:13:23.873-04:00Comments on LOOKING AT THE WORLD GAY: the holidaysdaveinclevelandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12322520630429327304noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-81858753179413635752007-12-21T11:39:00.000-05:002007-12-21T11:39:00.000-05:00Will you can continue to beat yourself up for some...Will you can continue to beat yourself up for something you really have no control over (and never did, although you and a lot of us out there tried vainly to control it) or you can start getting on with your new life. That's not to say you won't have slump periods, but you now know where you are headed.<BR/><BR/>We all love you and want to encourage you......as you do usmanxxmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04356862387136173023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-86715001290410984102007-12-20T09:14:00.000-05:002007-12-20T09:14:00.000-05:00I can only reiterate what everyone else said and g...I can only reiterate what everyone else said and give you a big hug (((((Dave)))))Stevenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15460856009625389973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-26064434394484047132007-12-19T20:23:00.000-05:002007-12-19T20:23:00.000-05:00all these guys are right. the first holiday is the...all these guys are right. the first holiday is the worst im sure. we are having a weird time ourselves. i do blame myself but coming out was the right thing to do.<BR/><BR/>- eliot<BR/>dailybriefing.wordpress.comeliothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00160243742030226131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-28738246477325005442007-12-19T16:17:00.000-05:002007-12-19T16:17:00.000-05:00hang in there sweetie -- you are so loved.hang in there sweetie -- you are so loved.Creative Thinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18309579386559338069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-72977215584006068302007-12-18T18:50:00.000-05:002007-12-18T18:50:00.000-05:00I guess there is no way to do this change without ...I guess there is no way to do this change without looking back at how things were and what that means for the future...you are not alone in this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-127481761518893972007-12-18T18:32:00.000-05:002007-12-18T18:32:00.000-05:00It's not your fault. It's not your fault. it jus...It's not your fault. It's not your fault. it just is.<BR/><BR/>To forge into the future includes mourning some of the past. <BR/><BR/>If you could go back, would you really want to continue that slow-motion suicide of the soul?<BR/><BR/>You'll make it bro. Listen to your brothers. hang in.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-69388030999558208522007-12-18T17:51:00.000-05:002007-12-18T17:51:00.000-05:00Do not blame yourself for what has happened. You ...Do not blame yourself for what has happened. You are finally coming to accept yourself as a gay man and, yes, there will be changes, but it is NOT your fault. <BR/><BR/>You did not ask to be gay and you have the right to live authentically as who you really are. Just as much right as your wife to live as she truly is. <BR/><BR/>It took me years of therapy to finally stop beating myself up. Do not make the same mistakes that I did. Both you and the wife need to move on, be it togther or apart. You cannot recreate the past, so move forward.Michael-in-Norfolkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06330888799107186550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-52795039824648324962007-12-18T13:55:00.000-05:002007-12-18T13:55:00.000-05:00Exactly what Lewis said. You can only apologize s...Exactly what Lewis said. You can only apologize so many times.Doughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14065042871216479832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33728576.post-34559226159759155682007-12-18T11:55:00.000-05:002007-12-18T11:55:00.000-05:00"I feel so Responsible"......No way, man....I'm a ..."I feel so Responsible"......<BR/><BR/>No way, man....I'm a firm believer in EVERYONE KEEPING THEIR OWN PROBLEMS.....you don't get to take on anyone else's issues, problems, bad attitudes, rejection, or anything else. Just keep your own and manage that well.A Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05066992019067893513noreply@blogger.com