Thursday, March 13, 2008

4-10-08

this is the date that will end 30 years of a often troubled relationship.....4-10-08...9:00am cleveland domestic relations court....approx duration of hearing...5 minutes.....
been a really rough couple weeks, trying to get house refi'd but no one wants to touch me with just single income....something about debt to income ratio being above 63%.......hmmmm perhaps shall mail keys to bank and say see ya..
later dudes

8 comments:

Anthony said...

My thoughts are much with you. My Date, was 3 days short of a year before yours. It does get better.

Lewis said...

Always keeping an eye out for good friends. And you're no exception. I wish you wellness, peace. You need it. We all need it. I remember my day in the lawyer's office well. It wasn't pleasant.

Michael in Norfolk said...

I am glad you posted today. I was about to call and check up on you. I hope the divorce continues to move slowly. Five minutes versus the 20+ hours of hearings in my case is wonderful.

Hang in there and call me any time you need to talk or vent.

manxxman said...

Dave,

My heart goes out to you.....one thing you've got going for you is that the divorce will be quick.

Work on making some good friends in Cleveland.....you will need them and one day they will also need your strength.

Mark

DoninToronto said...

hello...

although i am not divorced i feel for you.....

is there any way you can rent out a room or two to gain extra income?
or make the basement into an apartment?

i just joined an gay mens group up here in Toronto... it is amazing...these men are so smart and knowledgable and they will help you ..... just to talk to someone ...to know you are not alone ...makes the world of difference...and you know if you have a problem they will help you thru it....you will be shocked and amazed how much just telling someone that you are gay and lonely will make a huge difference in your life.....

we are all sorry you have to go thru this pain...but you are not alone you have wonderfull freinds here on the net ....just from reading comments that men who have never meet you ....they love you ....
everyone want to help

04.10.08 is not the end...it is a beggining .....if you want it to be.....the beggining of a whole new life.....
wow
i envey you ....you get a change to start over.....as a gay man if you want....

DoninToronto

Bigg said...

If you do decide to just drop off the key, the Big Woods are less than a two hour drive away. Remember that.

Steven said...

Thinking of you Dave. There is something so daunting, intimidating or just plain scary about this when you gave the time of "5 minutes."

Be well. :-)

eliot said...

have you tried an fha refi? i know quite a bit about short sales. email me if you still need help.

- eliot
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