Tuesday, February 12, 2008

life is good

so saturday i went shopping........damn i love to shop, bought a toaster....now most of you would not get excited about that but damn that felt so liberating, went to linens and things and bed bath and beyond and put MY name on their mailing list.............i guess i am officially gay.........guys i cannot tell you how this feels, while there is a certain level of sadness this process to get here has taken 3 years to the mourning period is over.....i contacted my mtg guy yesterday and started the ball rolling for a refi into my name, and doing all this and i don't have to discuss with anyone....just me, my decisions, my actions, i could just stand on a hill top and shout right now..................:)

8 comments:

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Well so now you begin your gay life as well! I am so happy for you Dave! I like PB&J on my toast please! ;)

Steven

manxxman said...

I like toasted cheese sandwiches, will actually I'd like two of them.

Continue the good work.....yeah you are going to grieve some more but it will be different.

Michael in Norfolk said...

As we discussed, I am very happy for you. I hope the amicable separation continues to be so.

Remember that there will be guilt and mourning from time to time as you move along the path to your authentic life. It is only natural after so many years of marriage. But also remember that at last you are able to just be YOU. No more actor on the stage for others. It is very liberating.

Creative Thinker said...

Shout it from the hilltop, sistuh!!! Give me a call -- I would love to catch up with you...

jas said...

As a fellow traveller ... I thought you would like this. One of those tag/meme things. You have to pass it on....



The rules for the meme are:
1. Link to the person who tagged you.
2. Post the rules on your blog.
3. Share six non important things/habits/quirks about yourself.
4. Tag six random people at the end of your post by linking to their blogs.
5. Let each random person know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their website.

eliot said...

not a bad time to refi at least.

Steven said...

I thought I heard someone yelling the other night. Now I know who! ;-)

Glad to hear that happiness and positive outlook in your "voice."

Akoni Chaput said...

Awesome to hear!!! Freedom is quite nice, and to have the ability to discuss it with no one!

Single life....I remember those days..lol.

Enjoy it Brotherman!!!